Helping you find happiness through being you
Helping you find happiness through being you
 

I joined the Relate Media team in the winter of 2005 and worked for them for 6 years in that role. Being part of the team meant I was often quoted in newspapers and magazines on relationship issues. You are welcome to full details of my work; click on the icons below to read or view the full articles.

I have also been a guest on Colourful Radio, BBC Radio, BBC Asian Network, Capital Radio, Radio 1, Kerrang!, LBC where I was often involved in phone-ins from the public with their concerns on various issues. Broadcast appearances included Press TV, OBE TV, CNN, Mexican TV, NBC, GMTV and the BBC Hard Christmas website.

Often, I was contacted by students in journalism to do consultancy work and to give talks on relationship issues.

I have also been invited to address groups and audiences about the work that I have done with Relate.

Television

● France 24 International News Channel – Asexuality 05 Sep 2010 • ITV This Morning – Ex-partners 04 Nov 2008 • Channel 5 – Common Sex difficulties 17 Jun 2008 •

Press TV (Nexus)– Online Marriages 22 May 2008 • OBE TV - Marriages Today 30 Apr 2008 ● Talkback Thames Ltd - Channel 5 Sex Series with Em & Lo 08 Apr 2008 ● Russian TV (Channel 1) - D Day (Divorce Day 7 Jan) 08 Jan 2001 ● GMTV - Impact of Christmas on relationships 29 Dec 2006 • NBC American TV – Joe Dobbie’s e-mail to Kate 31 Jul 2006 • Mexican TV – The rate of divorce in today’s society 21 Mar 2006 ● CNN - Difficulties faced in long-term relationships 07 Mar 2006
Radio

● Radio 5 Live – Breaking up, from a man’s point of view 1 Jul 2010 ● BBC Radio Show – Mixed marriages, cultures & religions – for better or for worse 2 Jun 2010 • BBC Radio Essex - Online relationships & their impact on the primary relationship 9 Sep 2009 • BBC Somerset – Prenuptial agreements 27 Apr 2009 • BBC Essex – Couples who sleep apart 10 Apr 2009 • BBC Radio Stoke – Young couples who cannot afford to live apart even though they are separated 09 Apr 2009 • Made in Manchester – Low libido in 16-24 year olds 08 Apr 2009 • BBC West Midlands – Families not communicating 31 Mar 2009 • BBC Tease – Formula for the Perfect Marriage 26 Mar 2009 • Karang – The Credit Crunch 27 Feb 2009 • Radio One – The Credit Crunch 27 Feb 2009 • BBC Asian Network – The Credit Crunch 27 Feb 2009 • Radio 5 – Should you enter marriage thinking he is NOT the right one 20 Oct 2008 • BBC Radio 5 Live – Monogamy v Open Relationships 09 Sep 2008 • BBC Radio Sheffield – Age gaps in relationships – do they work? 02 Sep 2008 • BBC Radio Stoke – Marrying too young 28 Aug 2008 • BBC London (The Late Show) – Infidelity 13 Aug 2008 • BBC Radio Soke – In-law problems 04 Mar 2008 • BBC WM – Quality time in the car for couples 15 Jan 2008 • BBC Radio Sheffield – D Day (Divorce Day 7th Jan) 07 Jan 2008 • BBC Radio Essex – D Day (Divorce Day 7th Jan) 07 Jan 2008 • BBC London – Stresses on couples and families at X’mas 18 Dec 2007 • LCB 97.3 FM – Pressures/stresses at Christmas 07 Dec 2007 • Radio 4 Documentary – PST at Relate 06 Dec 2007 • Colourful Radio – How to love an unlovable child 19 Oct 2007 • BBC Coventry & Warcs – Finding love on holiday 15 May 2007 • BBC London – Secrets & lies in relationships 09 May 2007 • BBC London – Soho’s “Amora” 17 Apr 2007 • Colourful Radio – Marriage Statistics (10% fall) 23 Feb 2007 • BBC London – How to improve your sex life 19 Feb 2007 • Leeds Student Radio – Men over 50s & affairs 09 Jan 2007 • BBC Mill Bank – Insidedivorce.com 08 Jan 2007 • BBC Asian Network – Impact of alcohol on relationships 08 Dec 2006 • Smoke Radio – Problems faced dating long distance 17 Oct 2006 • BBC Essex – Relationships with in-laws 07 Aug 2006 • Colourful Radio – Difficulties in confiding in families 17 Jul 2006 • BBC Coventry – Pressures on relationships 04 Jul 2006 • Capital Radio – The World Cup 23 Jun 2006 • Radio Spin – Conflicts with in-laws 02 Jun 2006 • BBC Radio – Secrets of a happy relationship 22 May 2006 • BBC Asian Network – Keeping secrets from your partner 13 Dec 2005

Newspapers

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● Daily Mail - When a woman earns more than her man 11 Oct 2010 ● Daily Express - A new start for a new year 5 Oct 2010 ● Evening Standard - Couples rowing in the car 16 Sep 2010 ● Sunday Times – Mixed marriages, cultures & religions – for better or for worse 2 Jun 2010 ● The Times (Body & Soul) – Jealousy in relationships 28 May 2010 ●The Observer – The impact of means tested child benefit on couple relationships 19 May 2010 ● The Sun Online – Staying friends with an ex-partner 114 Apr 2010 ● The Telegraph – Married couples in business together 8 Apr 2010 • The Echo – Sexual Addiction 21 Jan 2010 • Sunday Express – Affairs 14 Jan 2010 • The Telegraph – Baby boom due to the Big Freeze 14 Jan 2010 • The Mail on Sunday – The rel bet housework and the frequency of sex in couples 8 Jan 2010 • The Sun – Put the spark back into Sex 1 Dec 2009 • The Guardian – Talk to your partner about your day 8 Oct 2009 • The Guardian – Divorced Couples as Friends 24 Aug 2009 • Daily Mail – The New 4 year itch? 10 Aug 2009• Daily Mail – Impact of Porn on a couple’s relationship 15 Jul 2009 • The Sunday Supplement – Divorce in later life 23 Jun 2009 • The Independent on Sunday – How to avoid arguments over the bank holidays 22 May 2009 • The London Paper – Living together & the credit crunch 17 Mar 2009 • The Mirror – Sex during pregnancy 01 Dec 2008 • National News – The 7 year itch 15 Oct 2008 • Sunday Telegraph – Relationships since 1948 11 Jul 2008 • Mail on Sunday – Women in their 30s/40s reconnecting with their fathers 24 May 2008 • The Swindon Advertiser – Trial Separations 16 Apr 2008 • Metro London – What mystifies us as therapists 29 Oct 2007 • Daily Mirror – Why women with children are sexy 18 Aug 2007 • Daily Mirror – What men find sexy about women 03 Aug 2007 • The Sikh Times & Eastern Voice – Male Divorce 03 Jul 2007 • Montreal Canadian Newspaper – “Amora” (sex exhibition) 02 Jul 2007 • The Scotsman – Couples’ individual income 11 May 2007 • Solent News – Infidelity survey 20 Apr 2007 • Mail on Sunday – Divorced fathers & contact with children 15 Jan 2007 • Hornsey Journal Series – The real job of a sex therapist 22 Dec 2006 • Solent News – The Remembrance Ring (anniversaries) 26 Sep 2006 • Press Association – Ant & Dec: Friendship vs marriage 24 Jul 2006

Magazines

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● Daily Mirror - Low libido in Women 21 Dec 2010 ● Premier - Problem page "How do I stop my son's affair?" 20 Dec 2010 ● National Family Weekly - Keeping the Romance alive 15 Dec 2010 ● She - Secrets in a relationship 14 Dec 2010 ● County Wedding - When things go wrong on your big day 26 Oct 2010 ● Choice - How to keep relationships alive after 30/40 years of being together 22 Oct 2010 ● Fashion & Lifestyle - Sexual Statistics on Orgasms 7 Oct 2010 ● Ben Health - Starting again for the 50 plus 16 Sep 2010 ● Sense – Step families & better relationships 22 Jul 2010 ● Woman- Sibling Rivalry 13 Jul 2010 ● Marie Claire – The impact of trauma on relationships 12 Jul 2010 ● She – Credit card debts & disputes with neighbours 07 Jul 2010 ● Love It – The impact of the World Cup on couple relationships 24 May 2010 ● Cosmo Bride – Avoiding conflicts at weddings 13 May 2010 ● Top Sontae Magazine – The importance of sex in relationships 24 May 2010 ● Top Sontae Magazine – Tips on talking to your partner about different issues 29 Apr 2010 ●
Essentials – Problem page: “I am dreading going on holiday with my husband 29 Apr 2010 ● Red – The impact of a new baby on the couple’s relationship 26 Apr 2010 ●
Glamour – Tips for a good healthy relationship 22 Apr 2010• Fabulous – Infidelity: What to do and how to pull back 18 Mar 2010 • Cosmopolitan – 10 things every girl should know about oral sex 17 Mar 2010 • Marie Claire – How much sex is enough? 16 Mar 2010 • Cosmopolitan – Divorce Parties 12 Mar 2010 • Psychologies – The Impact of porn on children 8 Mar 2010 • Pick Me Up – Advice for divorcing couples 3 Mar 2010 • Marie Claire – Can relationships survive a divorce 2 Mar 2010 • Real People - Separated couples who get back again 16 Feb 2010 • Psychologies – Sex in modern times 8 Feb 2010 • Glamour – when one partner wants marriage and the other does not 5 Feb 2010 • Marie Claire – Sex Therapy @ Relate 26 Jan 2010 • Stylish Magazine – Dancing as a way to help couple relationships 17 Dec 2009 • Woman – 3 most common reasons why couples separate/divorce 15 Dec 2009 • Love it Magazine – Stress on relationships at Christmas 7 Dec 2009 • Red – Separation in later life 15 Oct 2009 • Now Magazine – Celebrate Women 8 Oct 2009 • Cosmopolitan – Female Virgins in their 20s & 30s 21 Sep 2009 • Cosmo Bride – Brides 23 Sep 2009 • You Magazine – Pregnancy & the pressure on partners 23 Sep 2009 • Cosmopolitan – Female Virgins in their 20s & 30s 21 Sep 2009 • Marie Claire – First Love 28 Aug 2009 • The Stylist – Single Career Women & Relationships 17Aug 2009 • Company – Birth order in the Family 13 Aug 2009 • Woman – After the affair 30 Jul 2009 • Health Magazine – Sex in over 55s 23 Jul 2009 • North Leeds More Magazine – Jealousy in relationships 16 Jul 2009• Reveal Magazine – Erectile Dysfunction 11 Jun 2009 • Thomas Cook Travel Magazine – Holiday Romances 10 Jun 2009 • Lighter Life Magazine – Punctuality and its impact on Couple Relationships 02 Jun 2009 • Speak Easy Magazine – Relationships between parents and teenagers 21 Apr 2009 • More Magazine – 5 questions she should ask him in a young relationship 15 Apr 2009 • More Magazine – Tips for staying in a long term relationship 10 Mar 2009 • Father’s Quarterly – Changes to her pregnant body 06 Mar 2009 • Wedding – Questions couple should ask 20 Feb 2009 • Woman – Relationship with best friend’s brother 17 Feb 2009 • New Magazine – Cancer and Long tern separation in relationships 28 Jan 2009 • Top Sontae Magazine – The Credit Crunch 25 Nov 2008 • Adfero Ltd – Samaritan feature: Stress in relationships 25 Nov 2008 • Men's Health – Jealousy 21 Nov 2008 • More Magazine – Why men are afraid to commit to relationships 12 Nov 2008 • Company Magazine – Impact of Debt on relationships 05 Nov 2008 • Cosmopolitan Bride – Friends and their impact on your wedding 28 Oct 2008 • Beth – The impact of stress on sex 28 Oct 2008 • Woman – Celebrity Weddings 02 Oct 2008 • Weight watchers – Impact of Christmas on Relationships 05 Sep 2008 • Heyday – Christmas and In-laws 04 Sep 2008 • Intelligent Life – Money and its impact on the couple relationship 21 Jul 2008 • Men’s Health – Is the relationship over when you have an affair? 05 Jun 2008 • Stella (Sunday Telegraph) – When friends become lovers 21 Apr 2008 • FHM – Breakdown of relationships 08 Apr 2008 • Passionate Media – Guide for parents on divorce 31 Mar 2008 • Men’s Health – My flat chested girlfriend 25 Mar 2008 • Ladies First – Weddings & quarrelsome families 13 Mar 2008 • Insurance Times – Valentine’s Day & strain on relationships 30 Jan 2008 • Woman – First Love 24 Jan 2008 • Cosmopolitan – Dating a man or a boy (immaturity) 21 Jan 2008 • New Woman Feature – 3 problems 14 Jan 2008 • Fathers Quarterly - When a man wants to end an affair 08 Jan 2008 • Psychologies – Setting the romantic mood 21 Dec 2007 • Active Life – Advice on things learnt doing a new job 19 Dec 2007 • Woman – Mr Nice vs Bad Boys 12 Dec 2007 • De Vere Hotels – 25 tips for men’s health 11 Dec 2007 • Glamour – The 5 year itch 03 Dec 2007 • Hey-day – Loss of libido in the 50+s 03 Dec 2007 • Practical Parenting – Sex during and after pregnancy 23 Nov 2007 • Pregnancy, baby & you – What happens to US? 14 Nov 2007 • Chemist & Druggist – Sex toys 13 Nov 2007 • Eve – Divorcing couples & impact on extended family 06 Nov 2007 • Eve – 20 brand new things about sex 22 Oct 2007 • Conde Nast Bride – Men’s attitude to sex in new rels 22 Oct 2007 • Bliss Magazine – Making Christmas stress-free 04 Oct 2007 • Men’s Health – Ready made families 25 Sep 2007 • Men’s Health – Partners with different libido 24 Sep 2007 • Fathers’ Quarterly – Impact of new baby on relationship 13 Sep 2007 • Psychologies – Taking each other for granted 07 Sep 2007 • Eve – What to do if a relationship is going wrong 26 Jul 2007 • Bride – Sex vows before marriage 24 Jul 2007 • Vita – Impact of cancer on couple relationships 13 Jul 2007 • Father’s Quarterly – Loss of desire since baby 04 Jul 2007 • Woman – Obese children removed from their parents 22 Jun 2007 • Woman – Why some divorcing couples remain friends 15 Jun 2007 • Woman – Affairs in couple relationship 11 Jun 2007 • Interest Magazine– Co-habiting Uni grads different incomes 08 Jun 2007 • All about Soap – Mum with 2 kids dating married man 05 Jun 2007 • Men’s health – Premature ejaculation 17 May 2007 • Pride – Sibling rivalry 03 Apr 2007 • Woman – Impact of child sex abuse on adult relationships 03 Apr 2007 • All about Soap – I slept with my daughter’s boyfriend 29 Mar 2007 • Slimming World – Is the perfect sex life is perfect for you? 15 Mar 2007 • Saga – Rels: Importance of doing things separately 02 Mar 2007 • Essentials – Dating a divorced family man 21 Feb 2007 • Scarlet – Sex during menstruation 15 Feb 2007 • Australia & New Zealand – Migration down under & impact 09 Feb 2007 • Zest – Spring clean your relationship and love life 22 Jan 2007 • Love It – A party to celebrate divorce 22 Jan 2007 • Pregnancy & Birth – He’s having a baby 19 Jan 2007 • Yours Magazine – Loss of libido in the over 50s 15 Jan 2007 • Men’s Health – Spicing up your love life 12 Jan 2007 • Take a break – Reasons for marrying 19 Dec 2006 • My Weekly – Coping with retirement 15 Dec 2006 • Glamour – Do opposites work in a relationship? 03 Oct 2006 • Glamour – Jealousy in relationships 25 Sep 2006 • Cosmopolitan – Why have a sex break 25 Sep 2006 • All about Soap – Do I still love my ex? 18 Sep 2006 • Scarlet – Dominatrix and partners 25 Jul 2006 • Glamour – Female orgasms 16 Jun 2006 • Scarlet – Losing his libido 12 Jun 2006 • All about Soap – My boyfriend won’t commit 12 Jun 2006 • Red – How to avoid repeating your parents’ mistakes 15 May 2006 • All about Soap – I don’t like my best friend’s fiancé 28 Apr 2006 • Super Nanny – Dating again after divorce 21 Apr 2006 • Easy Living – Turn your frown upside down 11 Apr 2006 • My Weekly - Coping with unfaithful partners 27 Mar 2006 • Sainsbury’s magazine – Impact of holidays on relationships 24 Mar 2006 • Woman’s Own – How holidays can affect relationships 20 Mar 2006 • Family Circle – Are you living with a grumpy old man? 07 Mar 2006 • Men’s Health – Threesome sex 24 Feb 2006 • Cosmopolitan – Sex life swap? 07 Feb 2006 • All about Soap – My marriage is a mess 03 Feb 2006 • All about Soap – My wife does not want our baby 03 Feb 2006 • Men’s Health – Orgasms 20 Jan 2006 • London Update – Love and Arranged marriages 29 Nov 2006 • Red – Relationships and growing apart 25 Nov 2006 • Glamour – Sex before marriage 21 Nov 2006 • Tesco Magazine – Spring clean your relationship 14 Nov 2005 • Marie Claire – Difficulties in long term relationships 21 Oct 2005

Consultancy work/Miscellaneous

● Boots.com Health & Family - Empty Nest Syndrome 06 Dec 2010 ● BBC Website - An affair in pregnancy 6 Sep 2010 ● Men’s Life Today – Long term relationships 02 Sep 2010 • Goodtoknow.co.uk – Couples splitting up 18 Mar 2010 • Channel 4 Sex Education – Physical disabilities and sex & relationships 23 Feb 2010 • Boots Health Fitness Website – Marriage Week UK 19 Jan 2010 • Twinkleware.co.uk – Alcohol & Couples 18 Jan 2010 • Adfero online Agency - Meeting potential partners for the over 40s 18 Nov 2009 • The Royal Medical Benevolent Fund Website – The impact of long working hours for the parents on the Family 15 Oct 2009 • The New Relate Website - 5 more problems 21 Aug 2009 • Drink Aware Website – Young Couples going to different universities 17 Aug 2009 • Off the Wall Consulting – Asians & the Gay Community 12 Aug 2009 • BBC4 – Siblings 30 Jul 2009 • Relate Website – 3 Common relationship problems 09 Jul 2009 • Play Write for Theatre – Sexual Relationships 26 Jun 2009 • Dn A PR – Mad Men Press Activity 23 Jun 2009 • Cardiff University – How to get over your man in 14 days 21 May 2009 • Bristol University – Becoming a therapist 05 Nov 2008 • City University – The work of a Relate Counsellor 05 Nov 2008 • Adfero (Online news agency) – Cancelled holidays due to relationship difficulties 29 Oct 2008 • Bournemouth University – Empty Nest Syndrome 30 Oct 2008 • Men’s Health Website – How to argue less 09 May 2008 • Betty.co.uk – Adoption 27 Mar 2008 • BBC News Online – 70 years of Relate 19 Mar 2008 • ITV.com – Celebrating 10 years of Viagra 17 Mar 2008 • LCC TV – Marriage and relationship breakdowns 26 Nov 2007 • BBC Website – Hard Christmas 23 Oct 2007 • Cass Business School – Intimate relationships at work 27 Jul 2007 • Freelance journalist – Mid life crisis 10 Jul 2007 • Postgrad journalist student – Birth order 25 May 2007 • Bright spark media – Recovering from divorce 10 Apr 2007 • Freelance journalist – addition to computer games 5 Apr 2007 • What if innovation – Talk on Relationship Issues 16 Apr 2007 • Manning Gottlieb OMD – Talk on Trust 19 Mar 2007 • Westminster University – First Dates on Valentine’s Day 16 Feb 2007 • Leeds University – What can Relate offer? 26 Jan 2007 • London College of Fashion – Affairs: Why women choose married men 10 Nov 2006 • Relate North London AGM – Speaker on Psychosexual therapy 19 Sep 2006 • Make Believe – Loyalty in relationships 02 Aug 2006 • University of Bournemouth – Divorce and its effects 13 Jun 2006 • University Student interview - Problems in Interracial relationships 02 Jun 2006 • Passionatemedia.co.uk – When your man’s a worrier 06 Apr 2006

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